Align controller backend and data with new presets

Update palettes, profiles, tabs, preset sending, and ESPNow message format to match the new preset defaults and driver short-field schema.

db/profile.json

@@ -1 +1,11 @@
-{"1": {"name": "Default", "tabs": ["1", "2"], "scenes": ["1", "2"], "palette": ["#FF0000", "#00FF00", "#0000FF", "#FFFF00", "#FF00FF", "#00FFFF", "#FFFFFF", "#000000"]}, "2": {"name": "test", "type": "tabs", "tabs": ["12", "13"], "scenes": [], "palette": ["#b93c3c", "#3cb961"], "color_palette": ["#b93c3c", "#3cb961"]}}
+{
+  "1": {
+    "name": "default",
+    "type": "tabs",
+    "tabs": [
+      "1"
+    ],
+    "scenes": [],
+    "palette_id": "1"
+  }
+}